Sometimes it’s hard to be too sensitive.
If you’re anything like me, you know how it feels when your emotions are
bursting inside your head, leaving you unable
to hold yourself together any longer. Feeling something is amazing, but feeling
too much is somehow the same as torture and I’m not sure whether it’s a gift or
a flaw that needs to be fixed. In my opinion, feeling too much simply means
being too vulnerable. When even small things can either destroy you, or make
you fly high above the sky. So, here are some daily struggles that we, as
over-emotional people, confront each day:
1.
We’re always afraid to
say something in case we offend someone
Somehow, we know immediately when we offend
someone, and we’ll try our best to lower our
voice, and choose the most polite words we can just to keep the other
person’s mood on the right track, because we know what it’s like to be hurt by
words.
2.
When every failure
feels like the end of the world.
Every
embarrassing moment and mistake is equivalent to
letting down all of man-kind. We feel defeated and we just want to hide away
forever. We feel useless and the extreme emotion becomes too much to handle.
3.
We often love too
intensely.
Being over-emotional means being a
little intense. When we love someone, we tend to care too much, and risk
the other person not feeling the same way… Their actions evoke extreme
excitement or extreme disappointment. We hold on to every “hello” and
fall in love at first sight, and every time we love we risk losing ourselves to
heartbreak.
4.
When we know (or
realize) that someone might not like us.
All we want is to be liked. But when we
find out that someone doesn’t like us, we take it personally. People can tell
us “you can’t please everyone” but we will die trying. We will feel like we’re
not enough for them, and we’ll have trouble
forming relationships in the future. Somehow, it is hard
for us to realize that actually it’s impossible to please everyone.
5.
We take everything too
personally, even a silly joke.
When someone cracks a joke about us,
we’ll laugh at first. But moments later, somehow we will think for a second “Am
I really like that?” and we almost always take it to heart. We don’t want
you to walk on eggshells around us, but… you kinda have to.
6.
When we hurt someone’s
feelings, it’s like we hurt our own.
We will apologize until the word loses
meaning, and won’t believe them when they tell us it’s okay. Regardless, we
will feel guilty for the rest of the day. We can’t ignore people’s disapproval.
7.
When we want to cry
over something, but we can’t because we don’t want to look vulnerable.
There are moments when something
completely breaks us down, but we can’t show it because we don’t want to look
too fragile. Then, we will pretend that we are strong enough while our hearts
are shattered inside. We hold in the tears until we’re alone in our beds or our
showers and cry until we feel better.
8.
When we know that we
have to keep our heart open after someone broke our trust.
The aftermath of someone betraying us is
so overwhelming that it’s hard for us to trust and start all over again. Once
we love, we love
deeply; and once we’ve been broken, we are
hard to fix. We know that we have to keep our heart open to trust people, but
once we feel the pain of betrayal, we tend to shut people down.
9.
Other people’s vibes
affect us greatly.
We can easily read the sign of other
people’s vibes; negative vibes easily affect our moods Having constant mood
swings is exhausting and no way to live, so we must work extra hard to have an
optimistic outlook.
10. When we are tired of feeling
too much.
There comes a time when all we want is
to not feel a thing because we are tired of dealing with it. We are the people
who are affected by even the smallest amount of stimuli. We yearn to be like
others who are capable of not taking things too personally or seriously because
feeling things so intensely is exhausting.
There are still a lot of struggles
people who feel too much confront each day. Sometimes it’s tiring, but somehow
I feel that it’s a blessing that God gave to us. Feeling too much makes us love
people more because we don’t want the other person to feel sadness, disappointment, or a broken heart. It makes us know better how to
treat and take care of other people. There’s no point in refusing feeling and
emotion when in the end, one of the main goals as a human being in this world
is to love and be loved.
Featured Image by Josh
GoldsteinOriginally published at Unwritten (May 6, 2016)
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